Today’s lesson class: AB/DL or Adult Baby and Diaper Lovers

I must admit first though, this is a fetish and area that I am not really familar with. I know this community of sexual satisfication is growing in numbers but I have only minimal contact with this fetish.

Let’s start with the definitiions of this:

AB(Adult Baby) - the overwhelming need to be unconditionally taken care of. Wanting to give up being an adult and reverting back to the basic needs of dependancy. So this means giving up making all decisions, talking, and control on self. Suck as bowels. Reverting back to being a baby.

Take a minute and think of a baby and all that you have to do for a baby, now address that thought to a 40+ adult male. Freakish thought isn’t it?

DL(Diaper Lover) - a need to take care a baby. Being the caregiver in every aspect. This is a overwhelming want to have control and make all the decision and be the care-giver to someone.

Again think about this baby and all you do for it, if you had you choice would you say this is something you wish to do forever, especially to an adult. Changing diapers, bathing, feeding?

Let’s look at some of the construct of this fetish:

• The Adult baby is usually a 100% straight male, the man that lives next door to you.
• The Diaper Lover is usually a female but sometimes male.
• The role of parent-child is strongly suggested and play in this fetish.
• Sometimes their is a teenage babysitter for the caregiver.

Now I have always wondered what is the sexual gratification of this fetish because I don’t think I can get off thinking about or changing soiled diapers. Yes, REAL shitty and pissy diapers. In this fetish, like I said they give up all their adult control which includes bowels.

So sexually what do I, the Diaper Lover get out of this, well from what I read and the brief encounter I had with this fetish, there is sometimes sexual play involved. Things like masturbating the AB inside the diaper, or breastfeeding, cleaning the AB, or letting them explore me. For the AB, sexual gratification is found in the act of the role itself. So the act of putting on a huge diaper, a bonnet, booties, and sticking a pacifier in their mouth is enough to get their nasty cocks off.

Like I stated, I have one call with this fetish but because I was so ill-equipped with knowledge of this, I was not very god but he was easy to please, he wanted me, “mommy”, to change his dirty diaper and repeat the words “nannies(diapers) and huggies” to him over and over again. And say it in a way as if I was talking to a baby. It was so weird to me because I didn’t even know of this fetish and I could tell he was well into it because he was guiding me through it.

I also had a client email me in hopes that I would creat a recording for him that he could listen to. A recording detailiing how I would dress him up in his nanny(diaper) and give him a enema, then I would invite all my beautiful female friends over to watch him soil his diaper and laugh at him. Weird sexual releases I tell you, some people wish to have.

There are many, many free communitites online for this fetish, all you have to do is search google for them. Every and anything you wish dealing with this fetish is right at your fingertips now.

xoxo….

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The funniest phone sex call I’ve ever had……

It’s two that come to mind…..so here they are.

The first one, I was probably not even 2 weeks into the business and I was working for a company where we couldn’t turn down any call. We had to do every call.

Well this guy calls me and he wants me to pretend I’m very young and he is a drug dealer and he is shooting cocaine into my arm and he is watching how the drug affects me at such a young age, he tells me how he is soooo High on all types of drugs right now. He was slurring his words and talking crazy about all types of things. Well then, in front of his phone fantasy eyes, I transform into a big 8 foot tall shemale with a long cock and I’m chasing him around trying to fuck him with it… he starts screaming on the phone and saying “no, no, no”. At that point I was just quiet, I didn’t say anything because he was doing all the talking, to himself, I told you he was high on drugs.

Well when he stops screaming, he starts whispering to me “what are you, what are you” and then he goes to say “OH MY GODDDD, your a Robot, a sexy android, with a big cock, and you want me to suck your metal cock” and then he explains how me in my robot state grabs him with my metal, cold robot hands, and I make hime lay down and I stick my robot dick in his mouth, and I fuck his mouth….. he starts gagging on the phone, and at this point I’m still quiet, I haven’t said one word yet, he can just hear me breathing.

So after he sucks my robot cock, he starts screaming and crying again, and at that point I couldn’t take it anymore, I hung up on him. He was just soo weird. It’s like hearing a person coming down off the drug or freaking out on it and I was ill equipped at that point in my career to deal with that type of situation. In the span of 15 minutes, I went from a young girl, to an abnormally tall shemale, to a big dicked robot girl…. it was too much for a newbie.

On to the next one which I still laugh at till this day…..

A guy called me up for me to be his older Mommy figure, well when we first get on the phone, we make an introduction and he tells me he’s in his 20’s and that he is in his car in the garage. He is so horny but he has friends over so he had to run into his car to talk to me. Well we get into his fantasy and he is really into it, moaning, groaning, working himself in his car and then all of a sudden…. he says “oh shit” and he tells me to hold on……well I’m thinking he came and he is done but oh no…. all of a sudden I hear another male’s voice say “dude, are you jacking off in the car, ewww dude, your jacking off, Hey Guysss, this idiot is jacking off” and I hear my caller say “no I’m not, I’ll be in the house in a second” and then a couple minutes pass and he picks up the phone and explains that he basically just got caught and his friends are laughing at him. So he is embarrassed and he hangs up.

Well about 30 minutes later he calls back to finish his call…..again in the same car, with those same friends in the house…. I just couldn’t help laughing at him, it was hilarious because he was so embarrassed the first time that I was thinking ‘why would you call back’ but he wanted to rush and be in a hurry to get off so his friends wouldn’t catch him, he kept saying “we have to hurry before the know I’m gone again” and I would try not to laugh and keep going. It just made me wonder, how horny do you have to be to not wait until you are alone……lol.

There are plenty more funny calls I’ve had but these two are by far the worst/funniest ones I’ve had.

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My first call….hahahahaha…. how funny it was. Well first of all, the whole call lasted about 3 mins. It was an older gentlemen and he was wanting a young girl. Very young. Well I was so disgusted at that, that I froze on the phone. LOL.

I was playing a young character that has sex with her father and brothers and she is pregnant but she doesn’t know which of her relatives it is by. Very intricate background, I know….

Well the guy wanted me to tell him all the nasty things my brothers and father do to me but I couldn’t talk. I just kept saying “uh yea” and “mmmhmmm” which really didn’t do shit for him. So he tried to get me to talk by asking ages of my brothers, when was the first time each fucked me, how do I like it, and I still wasn’t responding in the “ooohh yea, it was so hot having my brother ram his thick cock into my little pussy” but it was more like “uhhh yea”.

He pretty much was pissed, and said “thank you” and hung up….lol. I was so embarassed that I was so bad and that I couldn’t talk about what he wanted. I was terrified that I was going to be fired on my first day. I made $5 whole dollars in 3mins of horrible phone conversation and I was praying to get better.

Phone sex can be scary and intimidating for the first timers, no matter if it’s with a significant other or a professional. The first time is just like sex, clumsy, fast, sloppy, and sometimes embarassing. My phone cherry popping wasn’t good but its funny that the first call I had, he told me thanks and I’ve probably never had that afterwards….lol.

It very slowly got better and better, I got more comfortable in my niche, and started having sort of a script for the guys who wanted the same things as another. It was also helpful and great that the company I worked(and still do) for has great people who are willing to help, research, give you things to say, and tips and tricks, so I had help.

Now I wouldn’t say I’m the best PSO out there, not even in the top 10, but I’m better than yesterday, and tomorrow, I’ll be better than today.

xoxo…

Learning how to have phone sex sounds funny doesn’t it? I mean, who wouldn’t know how to have phone sex, just do what you please. Well, that is true when its personal and you have all the time in the world to take to that person.

But, when you are on a per-minute time limit, you want to make everything perfect for your callers, because in this business, your ulitimate goal is: repeat callers. Having new callers is exciting and fun but when you can train and mold a caller the way you want, or the way they ultimately want, its what makes you more money than anything.

So, where does the technique come in? Well you have to learn how to read(even over the phone) a person when they first say “hi”. Did they sound nervous, did they sound authoritative, did they sound like a talker? I try to distinguish this in the first minute because I want to get to learning about them after.

Some clients you can seduce into talking about any thing because they are talkers and then when there time is up, they haven’t even gotten to the phone sex with usually makes them spend even more time than they originally wanted. I love these guys, I get paid to tell them about how I love shopping.

Some client, I call them phone sex connoisseurs, because they have been around the block of phone sex companies quite a while, know exactly how to delegate how the conversation goes, and if you can’t keep up, they move on to the next phone slut. I don’t usually like these types because regardless, they aren’t going to stay a customer long. They are always looking for the next, hott operator who can push their sexual fantasy to the next level. These are also tight with their money, they know EXACTLY how much they are going to spend, no matter what. It’s hard to talk to them about anything other than there fantasy.

Next on my list is the laid back caller, he know what he wants, he knows how he always imagined it, and usually he is a pleasure to talk to because he is nice enough to explain it to you, laugh, and get right into character. I also like these types because they are usually the married guy who is halfway excited about talking dirty to someone other than his wife, and half excited about trying out his secret desires, be it on the phone. These guys are usually happy and they just want fun. You can seduce these guys into becoming addicted, usually with a little babying to them, pretend you are going out your way to email, text message, and think about them, and they will start to spend more and more money, usually in some kind of gift, because the more they like you, the more they want to give you something, like they do their wives, it makes them feel as if you have a special relationship. These kind usually end up in “The Girlfriend Experience” category of phone sex where I think every operator wants a client.

The next are the guys I HATE, they are the nervous callers, usually new, and when you get to the part of the conversation that asks “so what are you desire”, they NEVER KNOW! It’s so frustrating because usually they know what they want but they are too scared to tell us. So here comes the guessing game, “well do you like your cock sucked?”, “are you into anal”, “do you wish to have a mistress”, “how about wearing my panties”….. The spectrum of sexual interest in some people is a wide as the earth so when playing these games, the operator usually ends up still being lost and the caller frustrated and still nervous. You can try to ease them into having “vanilla sex” with you but sometimes that is not what they wanted and you might lose them as a customer. If you sounded nice enough to them, they may call back because they usually try to ease their nerves with the same girl but its like pulling teeth and makes the minutes with them on the phone seem twice as long. Sometimes they come around, but usually the operator runs out of steam for them and the client moves on to bother someone else.

Those are the types of guys you mostly encounter, there are more but they could go into one of those categories. I guess realizing what type of guy you are faced with comes with a little bit of time in the business.

Callers are very aware of there time limit, especially when they are paying for high priced phone sex, so a technique I like to do is draw out my conversation to make sure he is getting optimal pleasure and I’m getting optimal pleasure in how long he is taking….lol. I try to make everything sound so good, they don’t want to even move on from the next activity.

“Mmmmm, your dick feels so good…” sounds good

“Mmmmm your hot, long cock sliding in and out of my tight, wet snatch…” sounds better!

“…you like the way I’m sucking you” sounds good

“…feels good doesn’t it? Your hard rod jamming in my little mouth *slurp*, thats right baby, give me that cock” sounds better.

The last thing I like to do is ask them if they enjoyed themselves, what they would like to do next time or I tell them “I can’t wait until we …. next time” so they are thinking of it. I also love to get there email addy promising more pictures and dirty stories for them, of course claiming its against the rules but I had so much fun, I’ll take the risk.

So those are some things I like to do when having phone sex, and some skills I learned that I use.

xoxo…