Hi all,

 I am Alexandria. The owner of the company where Phone Girl works. We have been working together for over a year and we have both taught each other things that it takes to survive in this business. Of course the first thing needed is lots and lots of horny men! But behind the scenes a lot of people don’t know what goes on.

 I get a lot of applicants every week and maybe one out of every ten girls work out. These girls think they are going to cum in and get rich quick. It isnt like that at all! It takes a lot of patience, time, hard work and sleepless nights. It isnt like your favorite phone girl can always be there when you call at any time but she does try to be. At least the good ones do.

 This job consist of so much and theres different sides to the business. As owner, manager, dispatcher the job requires extra work and dedication. Theres things to be done that must be done daily whether it gets repetitive or not. You must constantly be striving to get your websites out there online and you must be constantly thinking of new and better approaches. Sometimes at 5am the phone rings and no matter that you went to sleep at 4am you still have to get up and take the call.  This is a dog eat dog business and theres LOTS of competition to deal with.  If you dont answer the next one will.

 Fantasies and fetishes are constantly changing so training and the way you market must constantly change as well. What always worked one week doesnt work at all the next week. You spend hours and days trying to jump the gun and get a head start on everyone else.

 In closing, it isnt always the glory of “just doing the call”. Theres so much that these hard working men and women go through and respect is defiantly something earned. Dont short change a girl just because shes having a hard time getting into your fantasy. It could be she has been awake for 36 hours, not eaten and has a whirlwind going around in her mind. Take care of your Phone Girl.. Theres no one out there that works harder.

Yesterday, Imitation Angel over at WTF Do You Blog About!? presented me with the “I love your blog Award”. To say I was surprised is an understatement. I didn’t even know she read my blog…lol.

So here are the rules to the award:

Rules
1. The winner can put the logo on his/her blog.
2. Link the person you received the award from.
3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs.
4. Put links of the nominated blogs on yours.
5. Leave a message on the blogs you nominated.

I’m only going to nominate 5 blogs that I love:

1. Sin Secret

2. Kitty Bradshaw

3. Evil Woobie

4. Bad Evan

5. Fragile Heart

In the world of phone sex its a strange business to the people looking in from the outside. Most people think, why would a guy call up a service to speak to a voice to get him off when he can watch free porn, hire an escort, or go further and use a cam girl. Why would he just settle for phone sex.

The answer is easy. Some men want the basics, the bare essentials, they don’t feel like they are taking it to far by using phone sex, they feel like its an affordable way to get exactly what they want.

I’ve said it many times here, that the lack of excitement at home is often the force that is driving these men to me.

What their wife won’t do, I will… it’s as simple as that. Men love their wives and that holds them back mostly from cheating or seeking other alternatives to fulfill there nasty thoughts. When they consider phone sex, they usually find it to be a way that can be a secret…not too noticeable by the wife. Most men figure it will be a ‘once in a while’ thing. They never notice or think that when they call me, and I can hear the desperation, the pleasure, and yearning in there voice, that I’m slowing hooking them to what they want.

They may call me for a simple fantasy of just meeting in a bar and going home to fuck each other. As the relationship between me and him progress, his mind and imagination also develop and step foot into the fantasies he has never been strong enough to tap into. He starts to think about the things he wouldn’t dare tell his wife. And thats the beginning of the fall for him. Thats when he realizes that I’m there to indulge in his secret life, to bring it to the forefront and the best part is: I’m loving it as much as he is(or so he thinks).

The difference between me and a lot of other outlets for sexual gratification is that no matter what, I’m always in it to please you, you have a specific role you want to be played out, and I’m their saying the exact words, at the exact moment, and you are imagining me doing the exact things you always wanted. That’s the difference between phone sex and the other outlets.

When these men get so involved, so detailed to exactly how they want a role to be played, a voice to sound, a girl to look, its hard to play that out when they are watching a porno, or a cam girl who may falter or refuse to do his bidding the exact way. With me, he gets it all. If he needs a blonde girl, with green eyes today, I’m her, and tomorrow I’ll be a 45 year old chain smoking mommy with the voice to match, and guess what, I’m her too…

These things, this learning process is all involved in the techniques of phone sex. Read up on it, learn it, and understand that it’s not as easy as you think.

As much as I would like to thank the wives and girlfriends for being the prudes that they are, I can’t give them all the credit because there are a lot of fantasies and fetishes that I doubt anyone would feel comfortable telling their mate they love. You may be thinking “what could you possibly not share with the one you love”, well off the top of my head, incest, and rape come to mind. I doubt any woman would indulge in a man telling her her truly gets off to the thoughts of fucking a 13 year old virgin. How about you? Would you take that risk, or would you be understanding.

Most fantasies are just fantasies, never to be acted upon in the light of day, the dirty recesses of your mind and arousal, they are what you probably hate yourself for liking but to tired to fight the urges anymore. The thought of drawing blood from someone’s body and drinking it is highly erotic to many, but the thought of ACTUALLY  doing so, is not so much. Inside fantasy, you can think and be who you want, inside your mind and never have to feel bad about it. Talking about it with someone else, me, is enough to sate your desires forever, knowing that you let me in on your dirty little secret is enough. Sometimes is the roleplaying and live you make with me inside your fantasy that you seek.

It’s all what you have to courage to make of it….