When you think about getting off, do you think your pleasure is solely based on someone restricting you from cumming? No, I didn’t think so.

Tease and Denial is a fetish/fantasy involving being teased and turned on to the brink and then denied your orgasmic pleasure. Ha!

I think it’s a pretty funny fetish because it’s kind of easy to talk about all the things you are doing to yourself, or the things you would love to do for them, and moaning and groaning, sometimes begging… but when they can’t stand it no more, when you can hear in their voice that they are losing control, that the cum is surging in there balls and waiting to explode out the tip of the cocks, you stop them, usually in a very harsh way.

Tease and Denial sometimes tie into BDSM, but it can stand alone. It usually a fantasy where you take off each piece of sexy clothing, slowly, one by one, and with each new piece of fantasy skin that is revealed, you tease them with taunts “mmmm doesn’t my legs look so sexy, don’t you want to run your hands over the silky skin of them” and sometimes in the fantasy you let them but sometimes you don’t. You tease them with what they want and then you keep at it. It’s stupid but it works. Telling them “NO” and “you don’t deserve it” really turns them on, sometimes laughing does it for them to.

Deny them. Never give into what they are begging for, think of it as you are in high school with a virgin girl on the couch and you know how she teased and taunted you with the thought of sliding your dick into her? This is just like that, it never happens.

Sometimes you give them a ruined orgasm: letting them get to the point of orgasm and then telling them to stop, letting the orgasm slowly slip away and the cum slowly drip out, not really giving them pleasure at all. There are a lot of tricks dealing with tease and denial. A client I’ve had for about a year, that is his niche, he loves when I tease him. Maybe one day I’ll tell you guys about him.

xoxo…