Learning how to have phone sex sounds funny doesn’t it? I mean, who wouldn’t know how to have phone sex, just do what you please. Well, that is true when its personal and you have all the time in the world to take to that person.

But, when you are on a per-minute time limit, you want to make everything perfect for your callers, because in this business, your ulitimate goal is: repeat callers. Having new callers is exciting and fun but when you can train and mold a caller the way you want, or the way they ultimately want, its what makes you more money than anything.

So, where does the technique come in? Well you have to learn how to read(even over the phone) a person when they first say “hi”. Did they sound nervous, did they sound authoritative, did they sound like a talker? I try to distinguish this in the first minute because I want to get to learning about them after.

Some clients you can seduce into talking about any thing because they are talkers and then when there time is up, they haven’t even gotten to the phone sex with usually makes them spend even more time than they originally wanted. I love these guys, I get paid to tell them about how I love shopping.

Some client, I call them phone sex connoisseurs, because they have been around the block of phone sex companies quite a while, know exactly how to delegate how the conversation goes, and if you can’t keep up, they move on to the next phone slut. I don’t usually like these types because regardless, they aren’t going to stay a customer long. They are always looking for the next, hott operator who can push their sexual fantasy to the next level. These are also tight with their money, they know EXACTLY how much they are going to spend, no matter what. It’s hard to talk to them about anything other than there fantasy.

Next on my list is the laid back caller, he know what he wants, he knows how he always imagined it, and usually he is a pleasure to talk to because he is nice enough to explain it to you, laugh, and get right into character. I also like these types because they are usually the married guy who is halfway excited about talking dirty to someone other than his wife, and half excited about trying out his secret desires, be it on the phone. These guys are usually happy and they just want fun. You can seduce these guys into becoming addicted, usually with a little babying to them, pretend you are going out your way to email, text message, and think about them, and they will start to spend more and more money, usually in some kind of gift, because the more they like you, the more they want to give you something, like they do their wives, it makes them feel as if you have a special relationship. These kind usually end up in “The Girlfriend Experience” category of phone sex where I think every operator wants a client.

The next are the guys I HATE, they are the nervous callers, usually new, and when you get to the part of the conversation that asks “so what are you desire”, they NEVER KNOW! It’s so frustrating because usually they know what they want but they are too scared to tell us. So here comes the guessing game, “well do you like your cock sucked?”, “are you into anal”, “do you wish to have a mistress”, “how about wearing my panties”….. The spectrum of sexual interest in some people is a wide as the earth so when playing these games, the operator usually ends up still being lost and the caller frustrated and still nervous. You can try to ease them into having “vanilla sex” with you but sometimes that is not what they wanted and you might lose them as a customer. If you sounded nice enough to them, they may call back because they usually try to ease their nerves with the same girl but its like pulling teeth and makes the minutes with them on the phone seem twice as long. Sometimes they come around, but usually the operator runs out of steam for them and the client moves on to bother someone else.

Those are the types of guys you mostly encounter, there are more but they could go into one of those categories. I guess realizing what type of guy you are faced with comes with a little bit of time in the business.

Callers are very aware of there time limit, especially when they are paying for high priced phone sex, so a technique I like to do is draw out my conversation to make sure he is getting optimal pleasure and I’m getting optimal pleasure in how long he is taking….lol. I try to make everything sound so good, they don’t want to even move on from the next activity.

“Mmmmm, your dick feels so good…” sounds good

“Mmmmm your hot, long cock sliding in and out of my tight, wet snatch…” sounds better!

“…you like the way I’m sucking you” sounds good

“…feels good doesn’t it? Your hard rod jamming in my little mouth *slurp*, thats right baby, give me that cock” sounds better.

The last thing I like to do is ask them if they enjoyed themselves, what they would like to do next time or I tell them “I can’t wait until we …. next time” so they are thinking of it. I also love to get there email addy promising more pictures and dirty stories for them, of course claiming its against the rules but I had so much fun, I’ll take the risk.

So those are some things I like to do when having phone sex, and some skills I learned that I use.

xoxo…